I’m about to be a parent myself & I would never do the shit these niggas do.
What makes me extremely uncomfortable is when people can throw some shit they’ve done for me in my face. I don’t ask people for shit because of that alone. So when it comes to a family member especially a parent that has done everything for you to throw all that they’ve done for you in your face is like wtf?! I never asked for shit and if I did and you said no I said okay and kept that shit pushing. 1. How the fuck can I repay you for 22 fucking years of support? 2. Wasn’t that what you’re suppose to fucking do as a parent?! 3. If I knew that everything you willingly decided to do for me I had to give it all back then I would’ve said NO to a whole lot of shit!
But now I do know and I will not allow anyone to do anything else for me. If you gonna shove stuff in my face I don’t need you in my life.
She is some kind of goddess frfr
All that shit only made me stronger. See, when somebody keeps fucking you over and they know exactly what to do to get under your skin; do not react the same way you would all those other times. Be smarter, be wiser. Take control of the situation. Do not do what they expect you to do. It took me sometime but I know now. It is all self-control and choosing your battles wisely.